how to enjoy suffering?

What is the secret- how to enjoy suffering? The first thing is: if you don't escape, if you allow the suffering to be there, if you are ready to face it, if you are not trying somehow to forget it, then you are different. Suffering is there but just around you; it is not in the center, it is on the periphery. It is impossible for suffering to be in the center; it is not in the nature of things. It is always on the periphery and you are the center. So when you allow it to happen, when you don't escape, you don't run, you are not in a panic, suddenly you become aware that suffering is there on the periphery, as if happening to someone else, not to you, and you are looking at it. A subtle joy spreads all over your being because you have realized one of the basic truths of life: that you are bliss and not suffering.
So when I say enjoy it I don't mean become a masochist; I don't mean create suffering for yourself and enjoy it. I don't mean: go on, fall down from a cliff, have fractures and then enjoy it- no. There are people of that type and many of them have become ascetics, tapasvis, and they are creating suffering for themselves. They are masochists, they are ill. They are very dangerous people. They wanted to make others suffer but they are not so courageous. They wanted to kill others, be violent with others, cripple others, but they are not so courageous, so their whole violence has turned within. Now they are crippling themselves, torturing themselves, and enjoying it.
I am not saying be a masochist; I am simply saying suffering is there, you need not seek for it. Enough suffering is there already, you need no go in search. Suffering is already there; life by its very nature creates suffering. Illness is there, death is there, the body is there- by their very nature suffering is created. See it, look at it with a very dispassionate eye. Look at it -- what it is, what is happening. Don't escape. Immediately the mind says, "Escape from here, don't look at it." But if you escape then you cannot be blissful.
Next time you fall ill and the doctor suggests to remain in bed, take it as a blessing. Close your eyes and rest on the bed and just look at the illness. Watch it, what it is. Don't try to analyze it, don't go into theories, just watch it, what it is. The whole body tired, feverish -- watch it. Suddenly, you will feel that you are surrounded by fever but there is a very cool point within you; the fever cannot touch it, cannot influence it. The whole body may be burning but that cool point cannot be touched.
I have heard about one Zen nun. She died, but before she died she asked her disciples, "What do you suggest? How should I die?" It is an old tradition in Zen that masters ask; they can die consciously, so they can ask. And they are so playful even about death, so humorous about it, joking, laughing, they enjoy devising methods how to die. So disciples may suggest, "Master, this will be good, if you die standing on your head." Or someone suggests, "Walking, because we have never seen anyone die walking." So this Zen nun asked," What do you suggest?"
They said, "It will be good if we prepare a fire, and you sit in it and die meditating."
She said, " This is beautiful, and never heard of before." So they prepared a funeral pyre, the nun made herself comfortable in it, sat in a Buddha posture, and then they lit the fire.
One man from the crowd asked, "How does it feel there? It is so hot that I cannot even come nearer to ask you- that's why I am shouting. How does it feel there?"
The nun laughed and said, "Only a fool can ask such a question -- How does it feel there? There it always feels cool, perfectly cool." She is talking of her inner being, her center. There it is always cool and only a foolish person can ask. It is obvious. When a person is ready to sit in a pyre meditating, and then the pyre is burnt and she is sitting silently, obviously it shows that this person must have achieved the innermost cool point which cannot be disturbed by any fire. Otherwise, it is not possible.
So when you are lying on your bed, feverish, on fire, the whole body burning, just watch it. Watching, you will recede towards the source. Watching, not doing anything.... What can you do? The fever is there, you have to pass through it; it is no use unnecessarily fighting with it. You are resting, and if you fight with the fever you will become more feverish, that's all. So watch it. Watching fever, you become cool; watching more, you become cooler. Just watching, you reach to a peak, such a cool peak, even the Himalayas will feel jealous; even their peaks are not so cool. This is the Gourishankar, the Everest within. And when you feel that the fever has disappeared.... It has never really been there; it has only been in the body, very, very far away.
Infinite space exists between you and your body -- infinite space, I say. An unbridgeable gap exists between you and your body. And all suffering exists on the periphery. Hindus say it is a dream because the distance is so vast, unbridgeable. It is just like a dream happening somewhere else -- not happening to you -- in some other world, on some other planet.
When you watch suffering suddenly you are not the sufferer, and you start enjoying. Through suffering you become aware of the opposite pole, the blissful inner being. So when I say enjoy, I am saying: Watch. Return to the source, get centered. Then, suddenly, there is no agony; only ecstasy exists.

Those who are on the periphery exist in agony. For them, no ecstasy. For those who have come to their center no agony exists. For them, only ecstasy.

When I say break the cup it is breaking the periphery. And when I say be totally empty it is coming back to the original source, because through emptiness we are born, and into emptiness we return. Emptiness is the word, really, which is better to use than God, because with God we start feeling there is some person. So Buddha never used "God" he always used sunyata -- emptiness, nothingness. In the center you are a nonbeing, nothingness, just a vast space, eternally cool, silent, blissful. So when I say enjoy I mean watch, and you will enjoy. When I say enjoy, I mean don't escape.

Anger . . .

We all know what anger is, and we've all felt it: whether as a fleeting annoyance or as full-fledged rage.

Anger is a completely normal, usually healthy, human emotion. But when it gets out of control and turns destructive, it can lead to problems - problems at work, in your personal relationships, and in the overall quality of your life. And it can make you feel as though you're at the mercy of an unpredictable and powerful emotion.

Through His words, Osho explains how anger can be transformed into compassion through awareness and also lets you know the ways to control it. Remember that it's how you act on your anger that can make a situation better or worse. Take charge and don't let anger control you.

Anger is just a mental vomit. Something is wrong that you have taken in and your whole psychic being wants to throw it out, but there is no need to throw it out on somebody. Because people throw it on others, society tells them to control it.

There is no need to throw anger on anybody. You can go to your bathroom, you can go on a long walk -- it means that something is inside that needs fast activity so that it is released. Just do a little jogging and you will feel it is released, or take a pillow and beat the pillow, fight with the pillow, and bite the pillow until your hands and teeth are relaxed. Within a five-minute catharsis you will feel unburdened, and once you know this you will never throw it on anybody, because that is absolutely foolish.

THE FIRST THING IN TRANSFORMATION then is to express anger, but not on anybody, because if you express it on somebody you cannot express it totally. You may like to kill, but it is not possible; you may like to bite, but it is not possible. But that can be done to a pillow. A pillow means "already enlightened"; the pillow is enlightened, a buddha. The pillow will not react, and the pillow will not go to any court, and the pillow will not bring any enmity against you, and the pillow will not do anything. The pillow will be happy, and the pillow will laugh at you.

THE second thing to remember: be aware. In controlling, no awareness is needed; you simply do it mechanically, like a robot. The anger comes and there is a mechanism -- suddenly your whole being becomes narrow and closed. If you are watchful control may not be so easy.

Society never teaches you to be watchful, because when somebody is watchful, he is wide open. That is part of awareness -- one is open, and if you want to suppress something and you are open, it is contradictory, it may come out. The society teaches you how to close yourself in, how to cave yourself in -- don't allow even a small window for anything to go out.

But remember: when nothing goes out, nothing comes in either. When the anger cannot go out, you are closed. If you touch a beautiful rock, nothing goes in; you look at a flower, nothing goes in: your eyes are dead and closed. You kiss a person -- nothing goes in, because you are closed. You live an insensitive life.

Sensitivity grows with awareness. Through control you become dull and dead -- that is part of the mechanism of control: if you are dull and dead then nothing will affect you, as if the body has become a citadel, a defense. Nothing will affect you, neither insult nor love.

But this control is at a very great cost, an unnecessary cost; then it becomes the whole effort in life: how to control yourself -- and then die! The whole effort of control takes all your energy, and then you simply die. And the life becomes a dull and dead thing; you somehow carry it on.

The society teaches you control and condemnation, because a child will control only when he feels something is condemned. Anger is bad; sex is bad; everything that has to be controlled has to be made to look like a sin to the child, to look like evil.

ANGER IS BEAUTIFUL; SEX IS BEAUTIFUL. But beautiful things can go ugly. That depends on you. If you condemn them, they become ugly; if you transform them, they become divine. Anger transformed becomes compassion -- because the energy is the same. A buddha is compassionate: from where does his compassion come? This is the same energy that was moving in anger; now it is not moving in anger, the same energy is transformed into compassion. From where does love come? A Buddha is loving; a Jesus is love. The same energy that moves into sex becomes love.

So remember, if you condemn a natural phenomenon it becomes poisonous, it destroys you, it becomes destructive and suicidal. If you transform it, it becomes divine, it becomes a God-force, it becomes an elixir; you attain through it to immortality, to a deathless being. But transformation is needed.

In transformation you never control, you simply become more aware. Anger is happening: you have to be aware that anger is happening -- watch it! It is a beautiful phenomenon -- energy moving within you, becoming hot!

Anger is just like electricity in your body: you don't know what to do with it. Either you kill somebody else or you kill yourself. The society says if you kill yourself it is okay, it is your concern, but don't kill anybody else -- and as far as society goes that is okay. So either you become aggressive or you become repressive.

Religion says both are wrong. The basic thing that is needed is to become aware and to know the secret of this energy, anger, this inner electricity. It is electricity because you become hot; when you are angry your temperature goes hot, and you cannot understand the coolness of a buddha, because when anger is transformed into compassion everything is cool. A deep coolness happens. Buddha is never hot; he is always cool, centered, because he now knows how to use the inner electricity. Electricity is hot -- it becomes the source of air conditioning. Anger is hot -- it becomes the source of compassion.

Compassion is an inner air conditioning. Suddenly everything is cool and beautiful, and nothing can disturb you, and the whole existence is transformed into a friend. Now there are no more enemies... because when you look through the eyes of anger, somebody becomes an enemy; when you look through the eyes of compassion, everybody is a friend, a neighbor. When you love, everywhere is God; when you hate, everywhere is the devil. It is your standpoint that is projected onto reality.

Awareness is needed, not condemnation -- and through awareness transformation happens spontaneously. If you become aware of your anger, understanding penetrates. Just watching, with no judgment, not saying good, not saying bad, just watching in your inner sky. There is lightning, anger, you feel hot, the whole nervous system shaking and quaking, and you feel a tremor all over the body -- a beautiful moment, because when energy functions you can watch it easily; when it is not functioning you cannot watch.


Close your eyes and meditate on it. Don't fight, just look at what is happening -- the whole sky filled with electricity, so much lightning, so much beauty -- just lie down on the ground and look at the sky and watch. Then do the same inside.

So look! -- and when anger is not, it will be difficult to look: what to look at? The sky is so vacant, and you are not yet capable of looking at emptiness. When anger is there, look, watch, and soon you will see a change.

THE MOMENT THE WATCHER COMES IN, the anger has already started becoming cool, the heat is lost. Then you can understand that the heat is given by you; your identification with it makes it hot, and the moment you feel it is not hot, the fear is gone, and you feel unidentified with it, different, a distance. It is there, lightning around you, but you are not it. A hill starts rising upwards. You become a watcher: down in the valley, much lightning... distance grows more and more... and a moment comes when suddenly you are not joined to it at all. The identity is broken, and the moment the identity breaks, immediately the whole hot process becomes a cool process -- anger becomes compassion.

All Life is Connected

Life exists in non-duality — it throbs in oneness, because deep down everything is connected with everything else. This existential realization is God-realization. In Hsin Hsin Ming Book of Nothing, Zen master Sosan says: "One thing, all things: move among and intermingle, without distinction."

Osho explains: Life is an organic unity. Nothing is divided, everything is one. If you think it is divided, divisions are mind enforced. Otherwise everything intermingles, melts, merges into the other. It is happening all the time.

He gives the example: You eat a fruit; the fruit becomes your blood. The tree has mingled in you, the boundary is lost. And this fruit may have remained in many people's blood before, many animals, many plants, many rocks.

This energy that is the fruit has been there always in existence - melting, merging, emerging, moving from this to that, passing all boundaries.

Just watch any phenomenon. The fruit on the tree, what is it doing? Scientists say that the fruit is doing a miracle. It is transforming the earth, it is transforming the sunrays, it is transforming water. It is a miracle, because you cannot eat earth, you cannot eat sunrays directly. This fruit, an apple, is doing a miracle. It is transforming everything and making it so that you canabsorb it and it becomes your blood.

And this energy has been moving because it has always been there. The whole of the energy remains the same, because there is nowhere else to go, so the energy cannot be less or more.

Nothing is added to the universe, and nothing can be deleted. Where will you take it away? The whole remains the same.

Learn to remain calm in all situations

Life is nothing but an art of living. It all depends on how we look at everything and how we respond to situations. Every moment life is taking us into either happy or sad situations. And these are simply situations. An unintelligent person may turn these situations into problems while an intelligent person is one who can transform problems into situations. This intelligence is not born out of thinking but from moment to moment awareness. Don't allow yourself to be miserable. Don't cooperate with misery; resist the temptation. It is very alluring - resist it! And try to be blissful in every state of mind. Whatsoever happens outside, don't allow it to disturb your bliss. Go on being blissful.

And now we see that everything is going wrong! It is possible that we can manage with the computers, as they don't go wrong, and they don't function on their own; and if properly programmed, no human hands are needed to operate upon them. Compuetrs can be fixed or discarded if they go wrong. But what has become very difficult or next to impossible is to fix is the human psyche that has become damaged, deranged and wounded. The human mind is very vulnerable and receptive to all kinds of poisons. It can be very easily poisoned with the jargon of jingoism and jihads. Any falsely patriotic idiotic leader like Hitler or Osama can damage the minds of people on a large scale enough to trigger genocide. The minds of these Hitler’s and Osama’s are monstrously powerful and can effect any number of men. We have seen this in the past and we are witnessing it now. 

God - Place Own self in the hands of existence

"the distinction between the subjective and the objective art is basically based on meditation. Anything that comes out of the mind will remain subjective art, and anything that comes out of no-mind, out of silence, out of meditation, will be objective art.
This definition is simple and will destroy your confusion. Whether you are creating something -- you may be a sculptor, you may be a carpenter, you may be a painter, a poet, a singer, a musician -- all that has to be remembered is that it is coming out of a silence within you, that it has a spontaneity. It is not prearranged, preprogrammed, pre-thought. As you are creating something you go on being surprised yourself -- you have left yourself in the hands of existence.
Now your hands are not your own hands. They are simply following what the existence longs for. You are not to interfere, you have just to be a watcher -- a watcher of your own creative activity. From the doer you have to shift to being just a watcher.
The ancient UPANISHADS are one of the best expressions of objective art -- tremendously meaningful statements, immensely beautiful poetry, yet we don't know the name of the poet, the name of the mystic. They have not mentioned their names for the simple reason that they are not the doers; they are just instrumental in the hands of existence.
Mind is a doer, so when you are doing something according to your mind, it will be subjective art -- subjective in the sense that you are pouring your own thoughts onto the canvas in colors, singing your own thoughts on the flute, but it cannot be sacred. Your mind is so full of trivia, your mind is concerned with absolutely nonessential things. It is a mess.
Just sit silently in a corner one day. Close the door -- lock it so that you can be confident that nobody is going to see what you are doing -- and then go on writing whatsoever arises in your mind. Don't edit it; don't try to make it better. Don't even complete the sentences -- if they remain incomplete and another sentence intrudes, leave it as it is. It has to be photographic. Just a small ten minute exercise -- and then read what you have written. And you will be surprised: are these your words? Is this your mind? This seems to be the mind of a madman!
But twenty-four hours, day in and day out, those thoughts go on rushing in your mind. When anything is created out of this madness which you call mind, it is going to reflect it. That's why even a great painter, a genius like Picasso, has never attained to what I am calling objective art. All his paintings are subjective.
And if you watch his paintings, sitting silently, looking at them, the paintings will create not silence in you, not beauty in you, not grace in you, not a feeling of the divine in you, but you will start feeling a little crazy. Those paintings are crazy. They have come out of a mad mind. It does not matter that the mad mind was a genius.
On the other hand, if you sit silently on a full moon night near the Taj Mahal and watch it, you will be surprised how your mind becomes calm and quiet. The Taj Mahal has a totally different effect, because it was created by Sufi mystics. It is an example of objective art.
The subjective art is a kind of vomiting. You are filled with so much rubbish; you want to get rid of it, and the only way to get rid of it is to throw it on the canvas, on the musical instruments. Objective art is coming out of a silence so deep... it is almost an expression, to convey to you that this silence is possible in everybody.
Objective art has a message.
Subjective art has a madness.
You need not be worried. You are asking, "Since you first spoke about subjective and objective art, the artist and the mystic, a deep reflection has been triggered in me. I am confused concerning meditation and doing." There is no need to be confused. If doing comes out of your mind, full of thoughts, then it is subjective. If your doing pours out of silence, blissfulness, serenity, ecstasy, then the same doing has a different flavor, a different significance; it becomes objective.
You must have heard about the haikus of the Zen masters of Japan. They are examples of objective art. One of the famous haikus of Basho... and Basho is a genius, but he is not writing through the mind. Whatever he is writing is growing within him in his silence like a flower, and he gives it as a gift to the world.
Listen deeply to this haiku. You have to visualize it; then only will you be able to feel its freshness, its beauty, and its penetration into your own being. Just visualize:
AN ANCIENT POND.
A FROG JUMPS IN.
THIS SOUND.
Just these three lines... not even lines.
AN ANCIENT POND.
A FROG JUMPS IN.
Naturally, he creates a certain sound.
THIS SOUND.
If you visualize it, you will find yourself sitting by the side of an ancient pond... a frog jumps in. You will hear the sound of the frog jumping in, and after the sound, an immense silence. That silence is the message. Basho is trying to give you the message which he has lived, felt, and he feels a responsibility that it should reach to anybody who is in search of it.
In comparison to Basho, Picasso is not concerned with you. He is burdened in his head and he wants to unburden it. And when you look at Picasso's paintings you will feel a certain burden, a tension arising in you. If you keep Picasso's paintings in your bedroom you will have nightmares. Each of his paintings is a nightmare. He has relieved himself of his nightmare, given it to the painting. The distinction is very significant.
Before you do anything, let your doing come out of your silence. Before you sing, let your song come out of your silence. Before you paint you should meditate. Unless you come to the point where you feel you are no more, and now existence can use you as its instrument....
You say, "I have always felt my art to be my meditation." Just a little change -- let your meditation be your art. You have always felt your art to be meditation. Art has the priority, and you are calling it meditation because you get absorbed in it, involved in it, and you forget yourself.
Just a little change -- let your meditation be the art. First cleanse yourself; let fresh breezes pass through you, let new flowers of silence blossom in you. Then you know the spring has come, and now you are in the hands of the unknown. Just leave your hands in the unknown, allow them to move not according to your wishes, but according to something bigger than you, something vaster than you. You will be surprised that they move, and you will be surprised that that movement is not coming from you -- it is coming from the beyond.

Endless = Everything+Nothing

Our planet is small, a mere speck in our universe. This video shows the known universe having been mapped through astronomical observations and gives a glimpse and sense of perpetuity and mystery. Osho’s deep insight into existence leads to the observation that our Earth is going to die soon – other planets and stars will be born…and nothing is ever lost because, as he says, “the total remains the same.”

 “Scientists say that nothing is added in existence, and nothing deleted. Not a single atom has been added, cannot be added. From where can you bring it... when we talk about the total, from where can you bring a single atom? Or if you want to destroy a single atom, how can you destroy it? Where can you push it? Science says that nothing can be destroyed and nothing can be created. The totality remains the same, but the parts change. A tree is destroyed, a body is dead; a flower is coming up, a tree is alive.

Things come up, things go down; things are born, things die.

But the totality remains as it is.

A tree dies because a tree is a part. When it dies it goes back down to the total, but the total remains the same. This sutra says: I SUFFER NOT DESTRUCTION, NEITHER HAVE I BIRTH.... How can the total be born? This point also must be looked at deeply.

All the religions have tried to think how the world came into being. Where is the beginning? Christianity says that before Jesus Christ, four thousand years back, the world came into being, suddenly, in a week. In six days God created the world, and on the seventh day he relaxed. That's why the seventh day is a holiday. In six days he created the world – on a particular date. This is absurd, because this total cannot come out of nothing. And even if the world came into being, God was before it. So there was a world of a certain kind. God was there, so existence was there. –

Hindus say this is beginningless and endless; existence is beginningless and endless. So worlds may be created and worlds may be destroyed, but existence continues. The Hindu mind says that one world is created and another is being destroyed simultaneously. A star is born and another star is dying. Our earth is just now old, and soon it will die. Whatsoever we do, the earth is going to die; now it is old. Many things will happen which will help it to die: the population explosion will help, atomic research will help, pollution will help, chaotic trend, revolutions, rebellions will help; everything will help this earth to die.
Man going to the moon is a very symbolic act. Whenever some planet dies, life tries to go somewhere else. It happens only then, never before. Whenever some planet is going to die, life begins to try to go somewhere else, to be replanted somewhere else.

Still scientists are not able to find out from where life came to this earth; there seems to be no reason how it can come up suddenly. It must have come from somewhere else. It is possible that some old earth dying, some ancient planet dying, and its sun.... Even one man and one woman transplanted to this earth would create the whole thing. It may have been Adam and Eve coming from some other planet which was dying; and two are enough to create millions.

It is felt deeply that this earth is going to die soon; that is why there is so much search to go beyond this earth – to the moon, to Mars, or to somewhere, somewhere to find a home again. Life is just going to die here. Neither politicians can help us, not pacifists. This earth is going to die. Everything born is bound to die some time. And for the earth, one thousand, two thousand years are nothing. So it may continue, but it is just on the verge. Every symptom shows that it is just on the verge. So one earth may be born, another may die.

One world may be born. When I say world, I don't mean total, because there are many, many worlds. Our world consists of the solar system: this sun and the family of this sun. We don't know. Out there are other worlds; there are many universes. We are totally unaware of them. Every day a new star is born and every day a star is dying, disappearing. But the whole remains, and the whole remains the same. It is neither born, nor is there any possibility of its being dead. It is beginningless and endless.”

-osho

Small is beautiful

I think no person in the world can dislike small things.When we take birth as a small child then our parents and family members give a lot of  love to that baby because he/she looks very cute, innocent, and polite.Even the baby of a dangerous animal looks very beautiful. Stars are very small but it looks so attractive that every child wants to take that star in hand. Even in Indian movies actor asks his actress that if you will allow me then I will bring the stars for you.

A small ring makes a beautiful relationship between bride and groom.

A small bindi on the head of the Indian women increases her beauty a lot.

When we mention the beauty of a thing then we also care about  its quality.

 A person like the small car,  house as small car give him comfort in traffic and a small house gives a lot of peace.

Exception are always present in the environment but most of the small things present in the environment looks very beautiful.

Different forms of Love

Love is a true feeling of the heart. Love is the name of sacrifice. Love that a mother gives to her child is the greatest example to understand this feeling. Mom faces a huge pain at the time when she gives birth to her child. She sacrifices most of the thing present in her life to make him or her idle person.

 A person begins his/her life’s first stage with his/her family members. We love our parents, brother and sister a lot. It hurt us a lot when anyone hurt our family. We learn and understand the definition of love from here.

 Second time we feel good for someone when we fell in love with someone and wand to make his or her, our life partner. We think that our partner is the most beautiful (the smartest) person in this world. We forget all the boundaries of the society such as country, religion and cast. When we spend our time with them then we remember that time for our lifetime. We want to marry with her/him with the hope to live a happy and beautiful life with them.

In the third stage, we become the parent and at that time a lot of new responsibility comes on our head. We have to fulfill all the demands of our child and at that time we also fell a lot of satisfaction & happiness. That satisfaction is our love for our child.

Love at any stage has some common features. These are as follow

•     It gives happiness and satisfaction 
•        It gives the lesson of sacrifice
•      We forget all the boundaries of the society

Because of that, I will suggest you that we should have to love each other in the world so that we can live a peace full and happy life.

Misuse of natural resources by human being.

Human being is the very special creature of the God. He made us very carefully so that we can look beautiful and smart. God has given us sharp mind to apply it for the welfare of the society and environment. He has given us the capabilities to understand the situation and take action accordingly.  Humans are made to save the natural resources and use it very carefully. But now a day we have started to misuse these rights and privileges given by the God. We started the excessive use of natural resources and tried to regulate the whole system made by him without thinking about our future generation .Some of the activities of human being which will not be proven good for our environment are as follows.

• Use of excessive amount urea during agriculture, which pollute the soil.

•   We have set up Production houses for the production of different products, set up nuclear plant for the electricity generation, so that we can live comfortably but  these plants emit a lot of Carbon dioxide

•  Flow of factory’s wastes in rivers and ocean, it harms the creature which live in water. etc.

It is said that if the emission of carbon dioxide in the environment will not be controlled then the ice of Antarctica will be melt down and after that sea level will be increased.

God had made human as the guard of natural resources and allowed to use it very carefully but we started to cheat the God. Is it Right?

Corruption in Politics

I had never understood and also do not want to understand the politics and politicians. I do not know much about the politics and politicians around the world but what I have seen & known about the politics in India, I want to express that in this blog.

As India is the world’s largest democracy. Politicians are selected by the people. They select their leaders for the welfare of the society. They think that their leader will represent their voice in the parliament and
will make the policy for their betterment. At the time of election they promised a lot of thing from the public but when they won the election, they  forget all their promises. At that time they do not think about the betterment of the people but they think about their own settlement. I want to express some of the weak points of Indian politics

• Politics on the name of cast: – As people of different religion and cast live in India.
•  Corrupt Leaders are present in the ruling party but the party does not want to take action on these corrupt leaders.
• Less educated and even uneducated people also
  fight and win the election

•  Ruling parties of the state and nation want to
  do their own in every matter, even in the presidential election

As India is an emerging economy .Its GDP growth is also very good in comparison to many developed countries in the world. So, if some very hard and fast rules such as minimum qualification must be graduation, candidate’s name should not be present in any FIR, during the speech candidate should not take the name of cast and religion, and if he will do it then candidate’s registration must be cancelled, are made regarding the candidature for elections then We will become able to get good leaders and the GDP growth of our country
will be doubled.

Beauty comes from goodness

Real beauty of a person comes from her goodness. Goodness comes from the holiness of the heart. We can not understand the goodness of a person in one meet with her, to identify this quality; regularly experiencing her behavior is the most required thing. I want to clear this word goodness in easy way. The person who has goodness is very decent in her attitude, has the integrity and honesty in behavior. We can compare goodness with the fragrance of the flower, string of the river, quality of any type of goods and so on. As all most all flowers have known in the world for its fragrance; without string, the river has no motion and without quality, product has no value for its customer.

Now you can understand it from the following example

A girl is very beautiful by look but she is discourteous, dishonest, undisciplined and she has no sense to talk with others then most of the people do not like her company so her beauty has on sense for this world but on another hand a girl is not very beautiful but she is decent, honest, disciplined and has the pleased personality then people like to spend their time with her and she become famous among others.

So, we can say that people have not known for its look but known for their goodness and good qualities.

Sky is blue

Sky is blue. It is a very simple sentence. The scientific reason behind the bluish color of sky is the reflection of the sun light from the ocean.

Blue color is symbol of brave and it gives energy and stamina to fight with problems. Whenever we get success in our life, we see the sky and thank the god with the very special corner of our heart.  It gives the proof that we believe a lot in God. This is a most common attitude of every person in the world. It gives a lot of satisfaction.

We can take the example of the players of different games such as when a cricketer makes a century, when a tennis player won the match and when a footballer makes a goal; they all see the sky. If you want then you will get it during the broadcast of any of these matches.

Our attitude has a perfect match with sky according to following characteristics. As the sky has no limit, we also want unlimited success in our life.

The heart of sky is very large; it has the capability to understand the feelings of others so, every one want to share the first moment of success with it.

Karma

How a general and simple man becomes very special for this world? His attitude, characteristic & qualities become different from others. All over the world become his fan and follower.

According to me the God has given the body and different qualities to all human beings but his Karma gives him the lead from others.Karma means “deed” or “act” and more broadly names the universal principle of cause and effect, action and reaction that governs all life. We can also understand this from the following phrase “What goes around comes around”.

 People living in this world are the child of our dear God and he loves his every child equally but his children get result according to their Karma. Some of his children become the great businessmen and others become his employees and assistants. Some of them become the superstar and others become the junior artists. This happens in all fields of work.

We can take the example of Mother Teresa

For over 45 years, Mother Teresa ministered to the poor, sick, orphaned, and dying, while guiding the Missionaries of Charity’s expansion, first throughout India and then in other countries. She was the recipient of numerous honors’ including the 1979 Nobel Peace Prize. Because of her great Karma (Work), she had gotten a lot of respect around the world and her name will be taken by all over the world with a great respect in the future.

So, we must have to try to do great karma to get great result during the present and future of our life and this will help us to become the great personalities.

Failure can not stop a person with consistency.

 

Failure can not stop a person to get further success in his life. Failure gives challenge to the person and the people who really want to do something in his life takes that challenge and get success in future.

We can take the example of two of the most successful entrepreneurs who had faced failure during their academics but they become the very good entrepreneurs.

1. Will Gates: His Company is the market leader of computer operating system.
2. Steve Jobs : He was one of the most innovative person of the world.

To pass in any of the examination in this world you must have to fulfill certain parameters in terms of studies, discipline etc and if do fulfill these parameters then you will pass in examination otherwise you will fail. But it does not mean that you do not have any capability. It may happen that you can do any of the work in the finest way in this world.

So, never fell defeated when you get a failure in one thing. It may happen that you will get a great success in another thing.

Corruption in India and My Thoughts

Are you think, the general public of India is Independent?

I think no, we are jailed by our politicians and corruption. As India is the largest democracy of the world. Politicians are selected by the people of the country. But politicians understand them self different from the general public means they think, they are very specific not general.

I am not going to give the baseless thoughts. I want to clear my thoughts from the following points

• They make government schools & colleges for the public but send their children to hi-fi private schools and colleges or send them to foreign. Now, I want to ask a question, if the quality of the government schools and colleges are so good then why they do not choose these schools for their own children?
• Government gives the cars and security personnel for the specific person but their service is also used by their relatives.
• I want to raise the question of distribution of LPG cylinder. Some of the politicians had used 15 to 40 cylinders in the last year where as general public do not able to get a cylinder even in 45 days.
• The country is suffering from the higher trade deficit; the value of rupee is goes down nearly 20% in last one year;Air India is suffering from the higher debt, losses and strikes. But the political leaders and ministers stay in 5 & 7 star hotels. They travel one place to another by private Chopper or by the business class of the plane. They also increase the expense as their personal security men also go with them.
• Corrupt leaders are present in the ruling government but the government does not want to take any action on them.
•  Government either in central or state take every action & decision in view point of election means state level or central level or local elections.

There are a lot of problem present in the society & the country but government is not ready to see these problems.

I think after the 66^th Independence Day, government will take action to remove the corruption from the country.

Hindi Cinema before and now

About 15-20 years ago, Hindi Cinema was known for its cultural touch. Directors and producers made cinema according to Indian culture in which actress wear Sharee,Shalwar and other famous Indian dresses. At that time family members went Cinema Hall together to watch the movies and enjoyed every moment with each other.

But now, very less family based films are released. Now we can watch the competition between the directors and producers. Topics of their competition are sexy and hot look of actress, semi or full nudity scenes in the movies etc. Films are divided into different categories according to different age-group but every one watched every type of movies.

At present,films are certified under 4 categories

• U: – Unrestricted Public Exhibition
• UA: – Unrestricted Public Exhibition –but with a word of caution that Parental discretion required for children below 12 years.
• A:-Restricted to adults
• S:- Restricted to any special class of persons

Children bunked their classes to watch the A category movies because their parents do not allowed them to watch these movies. These types of movies give a very bad effect on their mind.

I think we have forgotten our culture or become blind, so we are not able to see the Indian culture. Now we are following the western style but we do not understand that western directors and producers are working according to their living style & culture but we have forgotten our living style and culture.

I want to say one thing guru gur hai rah gaya chela chini ho gaya.Meaning to say that now scenes of English movies are better than the Hindi movies (Bollywood movies) on the basic of moral of the story.

"Dahej" Dowry-a crime

Dowry which is also known as Dahej in Hindi, is the payment in cash or some kind of gifts given to bridegroom’s family along with the bride. Generally these include cash, jewellery, electrical appliances, furniture, bedding, crockery, utensils and other household items. In many cases, even after marriage groom side demands many things from the bride side and when they do not give those things, it creates dangerous situation for the bride.

Act for the restriction of dowry in India

In India, ACT 28 OF 1961 The Dowry Prohibition Bill was passed in the Joint Sittings of both the Houses of Parliament and it became an Act – The Dowry Prohibition Act, 1961 (28 of 1961) and it received the assent of the President on 20th May, 1961.

Even after the powerful and supportive Act for the bride, many women do not able to take its advantage because of unawareness and many of them give their life because of this dowry system.

How we could remove dowry system from society

• Government should have to make very strict rules for the people who take dowry
•  Aware people living in the society, about all the laws, rules and regulations made by the government related to dowry system
• Parents should not marry their girl from the greedy person
• Parents should not take and give dowry for their son and daughter respectively
• Complaint about the person who have demanded dowry.
• The families which have taken dowry ,must not allowed to live in the society
• Government should educate women to make then self dependent

Taking dowry is a crime; so, do not become a criminal after taking it.

Corruption in Every Recruitements of job

Is Corruption cases happen only in Public Sector Companies? No; because my friends & I faced a lot of problems during different interviews with HRs of different private sector companies in the beginning of our career in corporate.
I don’t want to explain about my friends but I am going to explain one of the cases which have happened with me. According to my habit, I always check my e-mail ID in early morning. One day when I opened my e-mail account, I saw an interview call from the recruitment department of a reputed life insurance company. They explained that your resume is short listed for the sales profile and you have to meet Mr. xyz on the explained date, time and branch. But when I reached the branch, the explained HR manager was absent .Then; I had taken his contact number from the office and called him. On the same day he said, all seats have already booked and now there is no vacancy available in our branch. As I already explained, the received mail had come from the official ID of the company.
These days, most of the HR managers books all the vacancies with the help of consultancy and take a big amount from the beneficiary candidate to choose him or her for the mentioned profile.
If these managers take the interview for formality then, they choose their favorite student who has already given him the money. These type of HRs do not give any value to knowledge of the candidate, they give value to their money spending capability.
I think company’s should regulate their overall vacancy from it’s headquarter and should regulate their recruitment process, to choose the quality candidates with the help of fair & open competition.

Caste –A Political Tool in India

Political leaders & parties usually used the word caste as a political tool to win elections in India. On One side they said, caste differentiation is very bad as it slows down the growth of our country. On other hand they give reservations in government jobs, school & colleges on the basic of caste.

I think in this way people of our country will never become independent from their caste based thought process. Reservations given by the government must be based on income, not on caste.

I have shown several cases of General category people who survive their life in worst condition. They do not get two times healthy meal .They do not get any income source and benefit from government. This Cause pushes them to change their thinking process and to hate their counterparts in backward caste/category, because they think them as their chance taker in this competitive world.

One day one of my intelligent General Category friends with engineering & Management degree had shared a comment on Facebook and that comment was as follows

 ”Agale Janam Mohe General Na Kijo”.

 It means he does not want his next birth in General Category as he is facing a lot of difficulties to grab a government job. This comment has pushed me to write this blog. 

Some of the points to remove the caste differentiation from our country are as follows

• Government should give reservation based on income not on caste.
• Politicians must not use the name of caste to win the elections.
• Provide benefits of all government schemes to the society based on income.